The first thing a man should do when attempting to hook up is obviously to survey the market. If you're a guru at approaching girls you can approach anyone you desire however for the remainder of us, we need to up our chances a little by prequalifying the readily available resources.
About 90 % of the difference between someone who's genuinely great with women and someone who's second-rate with girls is the ability to identify a girl who is open to approach. This seems impractical, however rationally it makes good sense. If you stroll in to a bar and go up to any woman without knowing exactly what indications to look for, your probabilities of success go way down.
You need to know exactly how to locate that woman who's already in this receptive state, so you can stroll up and be "that guy." Do not buy in to the belief that girls do not want to be picked up. Girls want to be approached and picked up just as much as guys want to hook up.
Because so many men are hesitant to go for it, a lot of times, men and women do not hook up. And when this does not happen, the women end up going home alone or worse ... becomes bitchy to the guys in the bar/being mad and resentful due to the fact that nobody's approaching them. There are a couple of exceptional clues that will (particularly in a bar atmosphere) tell you if a woman is game, or vulnerable to approach.
Which woman is open to approach? Exactly what to watch out for:
The first clue is a woman looking down regularly. When a girl is in a bar setting and looking down, she's accessing her emotional brain.
If she makes eye contact with you, looks down then back up once again, she's saying: "I have an emotional response to you looking at me and I'm looking down." And if she turns her head down as well, she's physically dropping herself a little lower and revealing submission. Women who will be open to approach should automatically take the submissive position as a girl. That's one quality which shows you'll succeed with her.
Another quality is that she's actively looking around to make eye contact. This is important. A girl that is involved with a guy exclusively and not looking away will not be as open to pick up. So rather, if you see a girl who is in a conversation but constantly looking about and attempting to make eye contact with various other people, this is most likely an excellent chance for you and that's a woman you can walk up to and begin creating rapport.
Other qualities are disclosed in the way they're standing and just how they're dressed. Let's say she's standing with her feet about shoulder-width apart. It's much less most likely that a woman standing like this is going to be readily available for you to walk up and control. That's due to the fact that she's standing in a dominant position, with stronger body language and she'll possibly be a whole lot more insusceptible. As an alternative, you want to find a girl who takes up less space. She has her legs closer together and seems to be outside of a group, looking around a little bit.
If she's dressed in a way that's super flashy and attracting lots of attention, she most likely isn't the kind of woman you could stroll up to and effortlessly begin a conversation. These kinds of women are looking for attention - not for somebody to dominate them.
A whole lot of girls that are on holiday fall under this category. They don't wish to over dress or under dress, and have no idea how the bar environment is going to be. They'll typically come in open-minded, and start looking around trying to make connections. This is an outstanding scenario for you (and her, obviously).
That's what to look for and how you identify her in the first place. If you see some of these hints, watch her for a second and if you think that she is open to approach after that continue. "Season greetings"
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